Takeaway: Forget the jackhammer tongues and clumsy kisses; you only need a few key moves to make a woman go wild. Did you know that just 30 percent of women are able to orgasm through vaginal sex? What that means is that in order to really please a lady, loving partners need a few more tricks up their sleeves.
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If you're married to a guy, are living with a guy or have dated a guy anytime this past millennium, it's probably no surprise to you that what guys want more of is oral sex. Fellatio, blow jobs, going downtown, giving head—we blush a bit just printing the words. But in , men are hardly shy. At the end of date number three, they went home together. A few minutes into making out, recalls Holly, "He tells me, You're such a good kisser. I can only imagine what else you can do with your mouth. Undeterred, John asked a second time; Holly said no. He walked her to her car, and she never heard from him again. John's assumption that he'd get a BJ on the third date? You could call it in a sort of Seinfeld -ian way the new BJE, or blow job expectation.
Why do women love oral sex?
For one, blowjobs are work. They are not some frivolous, mindless act; they require concentration, skill and patience. I mean, what's in it for me? I'm far more likely to jump in the sack with you than I am to get on my knees -- mainly because I'd rather actually have a shot at an orgasm. I'd rather pick up a hottie at the bar, throw a condom on him and BAM, get it in and be finished with the whole thing. I know that oral sex doesn't happen only between a man and a woman.
For me, going down on a woman I love often feels like sitting down to a steak dinner after 40 days in the desert. In my research for this article, it turns out that a lot of i. Some men seem to be absolutely hopeless with oral sex. This is all good news for you. Want to give a woman the best oral sex of her life? Here is the low down on going down. Make sure she can lie back and let every muscle go. Lightly massage , touch, and kiss her whole body. Tell her what parts you find sexy. Lavish her with genuine praise.